Panic is like a runaway train. A form of acute anxiety that quickly spirals out of control. As a psychiatrist, I try to help prevent anxiety from escalating into panic in the first place. There is so much we can do – from getting plenty of sleep to daily breathing exercises, to keeping blood sugar stable – to decrease overall anxiety and eliminate unnecessary stress responses that might otherwise drop us into a state of panic. But sometimes our anxiety passes the point of no return and we find ourselves in a full-blown panic attack – a sudden episode of intense fear, accompanied by physical reactions such as rapid heart rate and shortness of breath.
A panic attack is essentially a discrete stress response in the body with no real danger or apparent cause. In a survey of over 3,000 urban residents across the UK, more than half stated that they’d had at least one panic attack in their life, with 14% experiencing them at least once a month.
I approach panic from two angles: the various techniques we can use during an attack to help end them, and the myriad things we can do the rest of the time to prevent them in future. In the midst of panic, I try to help my patients do three things: allow the panic to cycle through them, rather than resist it; become grounded in their bodies; and act as scientists observing their own anxiety. When someone is not acutely panicking, I help them to reframe their anxious thoughts, challenge assumptions about the likelihood of panic and the notion of being “stuck”, and most of all, support their physiology to eliminate unnecessary stress responses.
When we begin to panic, our instinct is to resist it. This is understandable, since panic can be alarming and uncomfortable. Yet, when we strong-arm anxiety, rather than allow ourselves to feel it, we are actually giving it more power. In his book Dare, Barry McDonagh explains how to let anxiety flow rather than resist it. “The secret to recovery is that once you reach a point where you really allow and accept it, it begins to fall away and discharge naturally. It’s the paradox that is essential to healing anxiety.” McDonagh advises that we “run toward” anxiety, instead of attempting to run from it. “The request for more is the most empowering and paradoxical move you can make when facing a panic attack … It’s a request anxiety can’t deliver. Your fear quickly subsides because the fuel that powers it, the fear of fear, has been suddenly cut off.”
When it comes to supporting the people in our lives with panic, it is helpful to show up with an attitude of acceptance. When I see a patient panicking, I do my best to be calm in the face of it. Without invalidating how intense these sensations are, I attempt to show them that I can handle their anxiety, in order to help them see that they can too. This is a technique that any of us can provide for someone in our life who is experiencing intense anxiety.
In the absence of a trusted friend or therapist to help you through an acute moment of distress, another way to ride the wave and get to the other side with more ease is to physically ground yourself in the present – in essence, to remind yourself that you are still alive, still breathing. Splashing cold water on your face or opening a window for a blast of fresh air can help bring you back into your physical body and the present moment.
Certain yoga positions can also be helpful, such as child’s pose. Sit on your knees, and then fold forward to rest your forehead on the ground. Let your arms fall comfortably down by your sides. If you’re somewhere you can’t exactly drop to your knees (say in an office or airport security), simply sit and focus on feeling your body supported by the chair. Another effective grounding technique is to count five things you can see, four things you can hear, three things you can touch, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste. This draws your attention to the present moment. Panic is often born out of “future tripping” or dwelling on the past, where we tangle with imagined problems or unchangeable grievances. Present moment awareness is like garlic to the panic vampire. Once you are back in your body, remind yourself that you are experiencing panic and that this is only a stress response. It is exquisitely uncomfortable, but you are safe.
I also urge my patients to explore their panic with the dispassionate curiosity of a researcher. Take an inventory of the sensations in your body: heart is pounding; breathing, rapid; hands, shaking. Think to yourself: “Isn’t that interesting? This is my body in a stress response. I know this now. That is all this is. Look how well my body works, doing what it is supposed to do when I am feeling anxious.” This shift in perspective – seeing panic as an indication that your body is functioning properly and that you’re not dying can be very helpful. It takes the emotional power out of the reaction, reframing it instead with curiosity, and even appreciation, rather than fear.
Preventing future panic attacks
So much of panic is built on thoughts about our uncomfortable sensations or the anxious thoughts themselves, which has a snowball effect. The emotion at the heart of a panic attack is not necessarily an insurmountable barrier; it is often relatively manageable and fleeting, capable of being reframed or challenged. This is where CBT excels. If we’ve had one panic attack at airport security, we come to fear airport security – not so much because we perceive danger, but because we come to associate airport security with panic, and panic is sufficiently uncomfortable that we become afraid of the panic itself. CBT encourages us to examine our automatic thoughts, such as: “I’m going to panic any time I’m standing at airport security”, and challenge them with the facts: out of the innumerable times I’ve stood at airport security, I’ve had a single panic attack. CBT also incorporates the insight that avoidance of the anxiety-evoking situation actually feeds the anxiety. Exposure and response prevention is a subset of CBT that helps us gradually and systematically re-approach situations that we’ve been avoiding due to anxiety, which, contrary to what we might expect, actually lessens anxiety. While therapy is not always affordable or accessible, it is encouraging to know that online CBT programs have been shown to be comparably effective to face-to-face CBT, so online CBT, such as at online-therapy.com, is one of my go-to recommendations for anybody struggling with panic disorder.
Part of what allows our emotions to spiral is when we attach a narrative to them, which often stokes the fires of anxiety. Rather than panicking about the panic, we can remind ourselves that we will be OK, even if the seeming worst-case scenario of a panic attack occurs. A component of panic for many people is agoraphobia, which is defined as extreme fear of entering open or crowded places, of leaving one’s own home, or of being in places from which escape is difficult. I see this play out most often when someone is afraid of being in a situation where it would feel particularly embarrassing or inconvenient to have a panic attack. This comes up frequently around the topic of public transport. Many people have anxiety on the tube, subway or metro because they feel trapped. Then they compound that anxiety by imagining: “If I were to have a panic attack here, I would have no way of escaping.”
If you are envisioning yourself panicking on the tube, take a deep breath and remember that it is very unlikely that you are stuck. If you were standing, you could ask someone to give you their seat, explaining that you are not feeling well. Then you could lean forward and lower your head to heart level or below to help return blood flow to your brain. Do your best to let go of concerns about this being odd or embarrassing behaviour. In all situations, give yourself permission to do what you need to do to take care of yourself; most people will probably understand. And remember, fellow passengers are so absorbed in their phones, they probably won’t even notice.
Always remind yourself that you are not trapped. You can get off at the next stop and sit on a bench or leave the station. Finally, even if you associate public transport with having panic attacks, just remember how many times you’ve ridden the tube without having a panic attack.
Decrease your overall stress levels to avoid panic
Building stress management into your daily life will make any anxious situation more bearable and will change your threshold for being tripped into panic. Prioritise sleep, eat a nourishing, anti-inflammatory diet, build some physical activity into your day, spend more time unplugged from devices, and try to incorporate mind-body relaxation tools (eg yoga, meditation, breathing exercises) into your daily life. Recognise when you’re in what author Julia Ross calls a “false mood”. Did you not get enough sleep? Is your blood sugar crashing? Are you over-caffeinated? Hungover? If you can minimise the unnecessary stress responses that these physical states of imbalance cause, you’ll go a long way to making your body more resilient against panic.
Panic attack cheat sheat
If you experience panic attacks regularly, it can be helpful to have a handful of reliable strategies to help you through these difficult moments. This list offers some ideas for fast and effective interventions. I recommend writing a few of these down to refer to in case panic strikes.
1. Go outside and move your body to release accumulated adrenaline.
2. Shake to shamanic drum music. As strange as it sounds, this helps excavate stress from the body and sync the brain into a relaxing theta wave pattern.
3. Refocus on sensory information in the present moment:
– Count five things you see.
– Do a 4-7-8 breath (inhaling to the count of 4, holding for 7, exhaling for 8), then count four things you are touching (eg legs, sweater, ground and chair).
– Do a 4-7-8 breath, then count three things you can hear.
– Do a 4-7-8 breath, then count two things you can smell.
– Do a 4-7-8 breath, then count one thing you can taste.
4. Take box breaths: inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4, and repeat.
5. Ground your feet and push into a wall with both hands.
6. Count backward from 100 by sevens.
7. Run your hands or feet through something sensory, such as water, sand or Play-Doh.